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What are the major differences between Chinese and Western cultures?

已有 370 次阅读2017-5-7 06:06 |个人分类:中国| Chinese, between


What are the major differences between Chinese and Western cultures?

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https://www.quora.com/What-are-the-major-differences-between-Chinese-and-Western-cultures#!n=12

Major difference?

Every culture come from their ancients.And the culture has tight ties with festival and myth.

Chinese festival have a specialty that it has something to do with the seasons' changing.

But I think what lead to the major difference is Chinese myth.

Chinese god/goddess is our ancients instead of somebody purely imaginary like Zeus.

Such as Dayu Flood Control,Hou Yi Shoots Down the Suns,Kua Fu chases the Sun etc. all reflect Chinese ancients struggle against the nature.Indeed that is unique in the world for most myths about natural disaster is the imaginary god saved their people.Only Chinese myth is about our ancients defeated the natural disasters.These myths teach every Chinese to believe yourself rather than something unknown.That leads to Chinese pragmatic characters.

And these Chinese myths could explain many questions.Such as as a nation why is China always pragmatic? As a whole Why do Chinese people always work hard?

Just because Chinese people believe themselves and believe they could make current situation/living standrd better.

Frank, discover more unique insights on Quora.
Sam Arora

Author in Hangzhou in West Lake, picture with a statue of well known artist.

Background : I am Canadian citizen and soon in a few years I be here for fifty years, I am originally from India, in addition, I have two masters degree one from my native India, and other from Canada, one in dairy and the other in food science. I have had worked for the corporate world, from managerial to the executive levels for 30 years,from mom and pop operations to multi billion dollars International North American companies dairy/food and flavor related industries. I took early retirement and chased my own dream in real estate I am in my own business for the last 15 years

Chinese connection: I have and had close association with Chinese class mates, professors, coworkers, reports, neighbors, and now I do business with 100 s if not 1000 s of Chinese from all over the world at one time including Chinese from India.

My affinity for China and Chinese: I was born in a small town of Punjab region of India, my primary school teacher taught us, our neighbor China is one of the oldest civilization in the world, and they (Chinese) were studying may be astronomy when most of the world was living in caves. This fired my imagination and I vowed may be one day I will visit this great nation. We had good relation with China then and after the war of 1962 everything went south, to get visa was impossible, and travelling from India was not easy. Regardless, the flame was there, I migrated to Canada, and the seeds that my teacher sowed in me about China grew bigger and bigger. Finally, after a long time my lucky break came and finally I visited China, and followed by other visits and now several other planned.

So much so that I am determined that my grand sons now 3 and 5, learn Mandarin, I show them China as much as possible so that they to understand length, breadth and the height of this great civilization.

My Quora connection:

( in four months I have answered 1250 questions and have over one million)

I am trained as a scientist, and made a living as a science person, but I have three bachelors, B.Sc. B.Ed and B.A. English and Economics, M.Sc. (Dairy Science ) Punjab, and M.Sc. (Food Science ) ( u of Guelph) Canada. I always wanted to write due to my arts side, and my son suggested Quora. I wrote fair bit on China/Chinese, and found Chinese audience one of the best audience, very polite, very constructive, and mutually very beneficially. Some of the comments I got, I will cherish for rest of my life.

Disclaimer : This does not make me an expert on the subject or this question, but I believe I can contribute a few cents in this discussion, due to my Indian birth, know bit about eastern philosophy and to know a thing or two about North American culture after living/education/working, it be soon half century. It may give me a bit credit-ability to say something on this topic.

Here are my thoughts:

The east is east and the west is west:

Wearing cut off jeans, Ray Ben glasses, tattoo on the arm and show relaxed and care free attitude does not make a Chinese to be American, and eating at westernized Chinese restaurant and putting soy sauce and eating with chop stick does not make an American boy/girl Chinese. Due to freedom and liberalization around the globe, new generation picks what suits them but inside Chinese will stay Chinese and American/Westerns will stay inside the way their culture has brought them up. That is a fact, my two boys are born and brought in North America, but at the end of the day they are Canadian born Indians.

The East lives for future and the West lives for present:

For thousands of years the east lived in community setting, family is the total center of the universe. Grand parents, parents, and in some case great grand parents even today live as a family unit, where as in the west parents more or less wait until the kid is 18 to move out or at least have independent life. In the east parents/grand parents/ believe in one unit, and they are ready to sacrifice present for the future of their kids. Not in the west, please do not take me wrong, parents and grand parents love their kids in the west but at the end of the day kids are of their own, in selecting career path, life partner and other decisions. Not in the east here parents in Shanghai park may set up information booth to find a suitable bride for their bright son. In the west most of people I know talk about spending all the money before they say good bye to the world, even by reversing the mortgages on their fully paid for houses. Not in the east, most of them want to leave as much as they can for the kids and grand kids. In a nut shell it is joint family system and the west is strictly single family unit. The east lives for cyclical, based on Karma and reincarnation where is the west is based on different beliefs of Christianity.

Author and his wife praying at Grand Buddha of Ling Shan.

World famous place Grand Buddha of Ling Shan, bathing of baby Buddha

Grand Parents have great influence in upbringing and instilling the values, in the grand kids, and that is why conventional wisdom is passed from generation to generation. This system in my view is very beneficial for parents, grand parents and kids.

Grand Ma with Grand son:

Doting grand pa with dear grand daughter

Author could not resist but to strike a friendship with this adorable toddler.

There is day and night difference between Chinese and Western culture due to demographics.

Chinese are relatively homogeneous group, mainly Hun say about 90 percent and the rest say 10 percent 56 minorities. But for practical intents and purposes it is very homogeneous society.

Chinese civilization 5 to 6 thousand years old, Europe is not that old and America may be 200 years old.

With this demographics : Most of the Chinese at least agree on Dim Sum, Feng shui, Stir fry., Chinese new year, and lucky number 888, mid night tea, and dancing.

Most of the Chinese share same nationalism, pride in their traditions, rituals, food, this cannot be said about the west because for example in Canada there are people from all over the world, everyone plays their own violin. Last week this is true example : we were sitting 8 people on the dining table, and we almost all were different backgrounds, some did not want to eat pork, some beef, some vegetarian therefore ordering food was bit of a challenge,

Difference in philosophy of education:

Chinese system tells you : what to think?

American/western system tells you: how to think?

Both have flaws and good points and that is one of the reasons American/Western and Chinese are different.

Chinese culture is based on the teachings of Confucius, Taoism and Buddhism, where as Western cultures are based on Christianity.

I could talk a bit about Buddhism, the Karma elements, incarnation, and the cyclical worldview. My knowledge about Christianity is not that great therefore I will not indulge in religious discussion of the differences I leave this huge topic to the experts.

Chinese food and western food are totally different:

Chinese food are mainly vegetables, rice staple and main meat is pork and that too in very small portions, others meats could Chicken and duck. I know I know I know the other exotic meats also…..that Chinese will cook and eat anything on four legs, except the table but honestly I have not seen any exotic food/meats.

Western food is mainly meat based, such as beef/chicken/pork and wheat as stable, followed by vegetables. For Chinese eating food in a family setting/sharing meal with friends/ talking is a norm, for western it has to thanks giving or xmas. In Chinese family everyday is thanks giving and Xmas. Most of the Chinese dining table are round with lazy susan to share the meals.

Food culture of China, eating is celebration time, usually table are round and with a lazy Susan in the center to share one meal.

As said earlier every day and every meal is special in Chinese culture the way I see it.

Chinese culture has deep roots in arts and literature and they are trying to preserve it.

Chinese and China have thousands years of history, and they are trying very hard to preserve for example Calligraphy, Chinese painting and other very labor intense arts and crafts.

In the west either such things were not developed to this level or due to extremely expensive labor they have died or struggling.

Seniors are well respected, have excellent social lives, relatively active and grand kids are taken good care

I saw first hand seniors in China have very good life, surrounded by loving family and they have good social life, interaction and extremely productive.

In my view seniors are much better treated in China at home, and by the society there retirement age is 60 and I Govt is very generous in giving low cost membership to parks (that is what my host told me). As I see it myself, as follows these pictures are taken the Temple of Heaven it is a massive park in Beijing, very well preserved and beautiful.

Here Seniors were busy playing board games, and in fact they seem to very happy.

In the west since this society is based on individuality and single family house hold, and in some cases seniors live alone and some in nursing homes, and good portion die alone, and in some cases there is no one to hold their hands when end is imminent.

China and Chinese may not be as affluent as the west as yet, but I am very sure senior there are very well treated by the family, Govt ( as per my host, he is born brought Chinese very educated and smart guy) and the society. They seem to very happy.

Here are some other seniors in totally different area of Beijing, what impressed the author was wide spread parks were exercise equipment was weather proof and tables for ping pong available for free to anyone.

These seniors are having a good time.

All weather equipment in the parks for free to use

No wonder most of the Chinese are fit,

Chinese culture is strictly based on as they say cut your coat as per your cloth:

Chinese people are big savers in general and most of them are not show off, they are not into competition with the neighbors, they mind their own business and believe in Karma, (at least that is what I felt during my exposure with them)

I sensed in general Chinese are more content with life than westerns.

What is the sum total of all these things:

I am sure there is homelessness, beggars, and slums in China too, but I have not seen much or in fact any. ( Even in city of Chongqing population 30 millions)

China has very low violent crime rate, women are very safe even walking alone in the middle of the night, in huge cities.

Considering China has population of 1.3 billion and very huge land mass, this country is doing well. I know I know there are very poor areas, pollution , commute problems and so on…..but I am still very impressed with this country, culture and history. Above all where this country is going right now I believe we will see more on China in coming decades..

Random Pictures:

Everyday and every moment is a celebration in China, it was no special day but these musicians and dancers added color and one market in Chongqing. It set the mood for happy shopping for the shoppers, author was pleasantly surprised.

Preserving old arts and crafts even in the face of rising costs.

China is doing the best it can to preserve labor intense arts and crafts.

and Who can deny Chinese fine arts and paintings.

Preservation of antiques and save as much as history they can:

Dana Sun

Many have touched upon family values and education. I'll touch on a slightly different topic: Social grace.

In Western cultures, showing social grace typically involves giving people personal space, providing compliments (when applicable), and being encouraging during rough times. In short, positivity is viewed as an extremely important trait when being courteous with others.

In Chinese culture, people value openness even at the expense of feelings as this demonstrates you care. For instance, a Chinese person may comment on how much weight you've gained (with no prompting) and suggest you eat more veggies and cut down on the sugar. To a Westerner, this appears rude as body weight is a sensitive topic. To Chinese folks, this is a normal conversation as someone is merely showing concern in an open manner.

That said, there are certain topics that the Chinese only compliment others on while wrapping their own situation in layers of disguise. The most common topic would be education; Chinese parents absolutely love praising how well other children are performing in school or extracurriculars but will never say that their own child does well (regardless of whether it's true). It ultimately transpires into a humble brag competition, hence the need to speak in layers.

Peter Moore

Chinese can be very upfront and unsubtle about many topics that Westerners would only touch obliquely.

China: “Haha, you’re much fatter since I last saw you. How much rice have you been eating? Did you need to buy a bunch of new clothes?”

Western: “How are you doing? How’s you’re health?” <considers whether she might be pregnant, but don’t dare ask>

China: “Woooo, you must be rich. Is that a Cartier? How much does your husband earn?”

Western: “That’s lovely. Was it expensive?” <wonders how she could possibly afford that…was it a gift? Are they in credit card debt? Is her father rich?>

China: “Excuse me. I need to go to the toilet. I have diarrhea.”

Western: “Excuse me. Something is not sitting well, but don’t worry, I’m OK.”

If you are Chinese and in the West and someone is responding to you with a face like this:

you may have wandered into a taboo subject. Best is to laugh it off with a small apology like, “Sorry, too much information, I know. Hahaha.” Most Westerners accept that other cultures have different boundaries and will still be your friend, often laughing at their own hang-ups.

I’m sure it goes the other way. There are probably Chinese wondering why a Westerner doesn’t just say “Did you put on weight or are you pregnant? Oh, that’s great! Congratulations!” and instead dances around the subject waiting for you to announce your condition.

I've got to say there are so many differences between China and the West, for they represent completely different value towards personal and social developments…Here I list some of the most obvious and symbolic ones that represent Chinese and Western(mainly America) cultures
Mainstream value:
Chinese value "family bond" and "collective power" They encourage children to put others' interest at the first place and always pay a visit to their gramma's house every weekend.
In Western world, take the America as an example, they value individualism. They encourage you to"show yourself"and "be different" instead of thinking"Oh!This is the latest iPhone7!I don't mind getting up at 3 o'clock and waiting in line for next 3 hours to show off in front of friends", which,ironically, is the typical Chinese way of thinking.

Education
In most Chinese classrooms,students listen to their teachers carefully and take notes.If they have difficulty understanding a problem, they tend not to interrupt and wait until the class is over.
Also , Chinese high schools have strict rules about students behaviors and especially when it comes to how they wear.No decorations allowed,no mobile phones,only uniforms, no fighting, no drinking…In short:DO WHAT YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO.
In American classrooms, they have much more freedom. They hold parties, proms, sorority…And teachers encourage students to ask questions and debating (critical thinking)is what most Western students are good at.Also, they write papers instead of doing "multiple tasks"

Family
In China , the divorce rate is much lower than Western countries. But it is continuing to get higher, since more and more Chinese women are getting higher edu.
Chinese people like to make friends with those who have a good family background, since they bring them more opportunities or money, and that kind of social relationships are important to get to a higher social status.
In Western countries, they may value more of "social networking" .what kind of friends with what kind of potentials are important for one to distinguish. But they both reward "hard work".

That is all I can think of right now. I believe there are more differences in people's ways of looking at things and judging beauty.But whatever cultures you like/hate, they are not perfect.In fact, nothing is perfect.
Lee Thé
There's a fascinating book about this: The Geography of Thought: How Asians and Westerners Think Differently...and why, by Richard Nisbett. Politics & Social Sciences. It's based on a bunch of cross-cultural psych experiments, designed and conducted by a team of Asian and Western researchers.

Here's one of the test diagrams:

They found that 80% of Chinese gave one answer, while a similar proportion of Westerners gave the other. 

The author speculated that a lot of the differences they found stemmed from the kind of culture needed to farm rice vs. the one needed to farm wheat.

Read the book if you want to see more of that team's findings about the two cultures. It did not say one was better than the other--just very different, and often leading members of one culture to see members of the other as behaving improperly or even immorally.
Tom Xu

Chinese morality doesn’t need an outside God to support, virtues are from the way of the nature itself while the unique God is very important until today in the west.

Westerners use rationality to cover their emotion inside while Chinese use emotion to hide their rationality.

Chinese culture seems to be collective when it is actually highly individual in the core while western culture seems to be individual when it is highly collective in fact. (Just look at how collective when westerners emphysize “teamwork”, “cooperation”, “social fairness”.) Throughout thousands of years’ history, China is only actually “collective” during Mao’s era.

Western culture values those who invented great machines hence changed the material life of human-beings while Chinese culture values who established feasible morality. Machines expand the range of activity for humanity, so westerners think they are more “free”. Only Chinese culture has collective memories about the harm of the progress of the technology.

Freedom is perceived as an individual spiritual aspiration in Chinese culture while it is about physical permissions in the west. “My government/parents/other people has no “right” to constrait me, so I am free.” “No, you are not, to be free, you have to defeat yourself, there is no freedom for a person who never even know himself.”

Different attitude towards the language, or more precisely, the speaking. In China, language is not that important to deliever message, one doesn’t need to be very precise when he is trying to say sth abstract. Besides 语言, the language, Chinese have another more profoud thing called 文字 which has no translation for it in English. It’s not “characters”, not “script”, not “words”,not “text”, not “writting” etc. It’s almost impossible for foreigners to understand because it’s another universe of human “semiotic system” for the foreigners especially people from an alphabet based language system.

Chinese society is based on natural blood relationship while western counterpart is based on law/contract. Chinese philosophy is to use natural affection based on the family value to change the law of the Jungle while the highest achievement of western philosophy in reality is the rule of law-an operational, controllable, acceptable law of the Jungle.

Jamie Cawley

I am a westerner living in China (Beijing and Shanghai) for four years now.

There is in my view very very little difference between the two types of culture that is not vanishing as China catches up with the west in material wealth. The younger generation that I teach at Uni seem very western, even if their olders are still rather diligent and sincere.

The only really clear difference is that religion still matters a lot to many in the west, whereas in China it is taken generally very lightly, although a few recent Christian converts can be quite western in their slavish beliefs.

This ties in with the feeling that the Chinese are more cynical than most westerners (but not as totally cynical as the Russians). I rather admire Xi Jingping’s government and think they are quite effective in doing what good they can but everyone here simply laughs at me and says they are the usual bunch of greedy *****s.

So not much really…

KW Lu
Thanks for A to A . 

It's a question that actually requires philosophers to give an extensive answer. As a Chinese who has overseas experience,  I have one simple  ( probably over simplified) answer to that :  Chinese are herbivores by nature  while the Westerners ( people from EU, US, Canada, Australia, NZ) are carnivores by their natural instinct,  if  to put  into a metaphor. 

Herbivores live a collective life as you need to cooperate with others for the collection of foods/security / looking after the younger ones.  Eventually , the herbivore tribes evolves into agricultural society , which emphasize on harmony of the family/society/natural environment, hierarchy , stability , accumulation of knowledge ( thus education is always the priority).  Chinese value the tradition so much that they recite ancient poems to the toddles as nursery rhymes.

While with the carnivores ,they evolve into wondering nomads and fearless pirates. Individualism is highly admired and you can see 'I' is always in capital and always comes in first in each sentence. With their hunter instinct ,  carnivores value risk taking and exploitation. They won't be apologetic to the weak prey.   The pirate story is prevailing , which is in sharp contract with China. Even though we do have gangster story like 'Water Margin"(水浒传),  the outlaws are more like Robin Hood style . It is difficult to imagine there is Chinese literature to glorify the pirates who did nothing extraordinary  except robbing people on the high sea.
郭丹
Chinese culture: individuals is not just individuals.
Western culture: individuals is individuals.

I am not sure what it is in western. 
I just speak for myself: myself life is firmly connected with my family/family members...what kind people of mine is deeply influenced by my family(my parents,how they educated me and guide me to grow up )...when i get married,what kind of life i will live is deeply influenced by my family(my husband,my husband's parents).

Add:
In traditional Confucian culture,there are two important basic creed :
1) 君君臣臣父父子子 (引申为“忠孝两全”)
     Imperial power or authority》Patriarchy》Individuals 
    (this is for man)
2) 三从四德:The three obediences and the four virtues(this is for woman)
   Three obediences (in ancient China a woman was required to obey her father before marriage, and her husband during married life and her sons in widowhood) and four virtues (fidelity, physical charm, propriety in speech and efficiency in needle work) (this explanation from network)

Above creed don't work now in modern society,but in the depth of  most Chinese's heart,state interests and family responsibility receive more priority than personal interest.(国家大义和家庭责任有时候是高于个人利益的)

Many have touched upon family values and education. I'll touch on a slightly different topic: Social grace.

In Western cultures, showing social grace typically involves giving people personal space, providing compliments (when applicable), and being encouraging during rough times. In short, positivity is viewed as an extremely important trait when being courteous with others.

In Chinese culture, people value openness even at the expense of feelings as this demonstrates you care. For instance, a Chinese person may comment on how much weight you've gained (with no prompting) and suggest you eat more veggies and cut down on the sugar. To a Westerner, this appears rude as body weight is a sensitive topic. To Chinese folks, this is a normal conversation as someone is merely showing concern in an open manner.

That said, there are certain topics that the Chinese only compliment others on while wrapping their own situation in layers of disguise. The most common topic would be education; Chinese parents absolutely love praising how well other children are performing in school or extracurriculars but will never say that their own child does well (regardless of whether it's true). It ultimately transpires into a humble brag competition, hence the need to speak in layers.

I'll list down a few differences:
Western culture:
1. Western culture is based on individualism rather than on mass  (collectivism). For instance, in the US, you always talk about individual  rights, instead of placing the whole society above your own self. This is  clearly different in China where a country, society or family are placed above  your own self.
2. Western culture is adventurous and exploration based. Westerners like to  discover new things, invention and expand outwards. For instance, bungee jumping  is considered adventurous and common in western culture, but you will probably  find no-one doing such a thing in China.
3. Western culture is based on science, which attempts to resolve people and  nature's relationship.
4. West uses law to resolve people and people's relationship. You can never  find 'law' well-established in China. For 2000 years, China is a land that's  based on human relationship rather than law.
5. West uses 'god' and religion to resolve human and spiritualism  relationship. In case of problems with your own self, you just pray to god.
6. A culture that expands and develop outwards.

Chinese Culture:
1. A culture based on masses (collectivism). People placed country and family  above your own self.
2. A culture that is based on humanism and people
3. To resolve the relationship betwen man and nature, the chinese attempts to  fuse the human and 'heaven' as one. (天人和一)
4. To resolve people and people's relationship, chinese uses ethics and  tolerance (中恕之道)
5. To resolve human and spiritualism, chinese emphasizes internal cultivation  (修身养性)
6. A focus on balance and mean. By 'mean', it means 'middle way'. You don't  go into extremism. Peace is always honoured.
7. Pay homage to heaven and earth, as well as bearing a remembrance to the  homeland. (敬仰天地,思乡怀土) This was accorded to the fact that chinese had been a  farming civilization and therefore will be more prone to remember their  land.
8. A culture that expands internally rather than outwards.
Some of the disadvantage of old chinese culture:
1. Debase women and chauvanistic
2. An over-emphasis on past history instead of present (lacks pragmatism)

Any comments is appreciated.
Eamon Dan

I think basically western society inherited traditions from ancient Greece and Rome, which were maritime civilizations. Their culture tent to explore outward, both on the world we live in or the world exsited in our minds. Chinese was totally an agricultural civilization untill 1950s’, the traditional Chinese philosophy emphasis “inward”. Maritime facilitated trade and commerce between nations, based on that science and spirit of contract started to boom. Agriculture civilization prefer stability and peace, that facilitated absolute monarchy and unity. China was unified more than 2000 years ago, the emperors of each dynasty in the history followed the same strategy which was shutting the rest of the world out. Science and spirit of constitution were no better use for the rulers than Confucianism and centralization of authority since the country was powerful enough that it didn’t have to care about anything else more than itself.

Wentao Lu

I’m a Chinese and I have been studying in the U.S. for 3 years. So my view of western culture is more U.S.-based. I don’t think I know Western culture in depth so if I’m wrong about Western culture, plz point it out and let me know!

I think the major difference between Chinese culture is the the way they make decision.

Let me get started with Chinese family value. Due to her large population, the competition between individuals are extremely fierce when it comes to job, education, and even basic living resources. Therefore, the family play an more important role in the Chinese society than other less-populated places in the world. The Western countries are usually this case. The sense of family in China is more like old-fashioned Italian family where all the family members who share the same family bloodline look out for each other. That’s a better way to handle the competition coz your relatives can help you in a way or another. And that kind of family can be a double edge. Similar to the Italian family, traditionally there is a head of the family who “run” the family like an organization. Such kind of family still exist in China, although the connection between sub-families are getting weaker. Nowadays we usually don’t have such one person in a family, but the parents play such role in almost every child’s life.

The good part of this is that under one mind, the family will work more efficiently toward a certain direction. The bad thing is that some of the family members don’t get to do what they want to do (lose some freedom) and the very mind might make terrible mistakes.

For example, when you get into college, you need to select your major before registration. Although there might be some determined kids who can make such decision on their own in a informed way, the majority of the young people cannot make their own decision at that age. I believe the same thing happen in the Western countries too but given the high competition in China, the decision will usually be the major with which you can find a job easier instead of personal interest. That explains why Chinese students (and Indian as well possibly) are so in favor of engineering fields. However, the statistically safe choice might not be the best for the very student. Talents might get wasted. And the child might not be happy.

Another great example is the communist regime. I notice there are a lot of question in Quora asking about why the educated people don’t fight against the regime that represses them so hard. It is not that they don’t feel repressedIt is true that they already have too much too lose since they all have a life to live. However, I don’t think that’s the real reason here coz there are millions of educated people who might not have a life meets his/her expectations due to some problems or mistakes or the government. The real reason here I think is that they have already get used to it, because they have been facing this since the day one of their life. Think about it in this way. China is a huge family, and the government, to almost all the Chinese, is the parent to them. We have been listening to our parent and making decisions under their influence since we were born. Now our parents made a mistake, we are not happy, but we can live with it. They made a good decision, we will applaud to it. This leader is smart, we will listen and do what ever he said. (Think about why Mao is still so popular in China.) If the leader is terrible, okay, that’s the life you got, you’d better live with it. Most Chinese get used to listen to someone, parents, boss in work, or government. Even if some of us do not listen, they will be influenced by them. And we have a great tolerance of bad decisions made by others. That’s the major difference I see between in Chinese people and Western people so far.

I think I need to be clear that what I have just described does not apply to all the Chinese.

Just my two cents.

Taizhi Lu

1.The biggest difference: Individualism vs Collectivism

A most common misunderstading on China: China is dictatorship.

China is a republic with multiple parties. CCP has the largest member group of 87.8 million population.

Is Xi a dictator? Same question on Jiang and Hu.

But 20 years later, Jiang and Hu just pass the learder position to their successor peacefully and in a fixed term: 1 term for 5 years and at most 2 terms.

What they are doing is just centralization. As a large country, China needs a centralized government with historic/cultural/practical reasons.

Most Westerners are not accustomed with a strong central government and thus they think it is dictator.

I want to say: Individual democracy is different from collective democracy and both of them are democracy.

Recently an open letter agasint Xi is popular. I think it is made up by Fa Lun Gong Media because CCP makes decision collectively. Even one Xi down, another guy will come up. And there is no reason to point at Xi becuase the life is going better.

There are many black propaganda on China, taking advantages of the misunderstandings.

2.Direct vs Indirect

A typical Chinese will not say anything on you directly in public occasions. If you are friends, you will get a talk priviately and the talk will not be direct.

It is not good or bad, just a custom.

Ofc, there are also many Chinese who are direct---I am!

But one thing very important! It is ok if you are direct to young Chinese, but you should show your respects on the elder. This won't harm you but you will get a better response because most of the time, the occassions with the elder Chinese are serious and important.

I think the two points are the major differences.

Others are not important because with friendly attitude, they can be understood.

Sorry for my poor English.
Western can't understand what is "the oneness of China"(“大一统”), "multi-ethnic country" . They can't understand why China must be one courtry.
In the age of Greece, Greek were belong different city country, although they were Greek.
The Frankish Kingdom can be divided into three different countries.
The western people may consider Xizang(Tibet) can be independant, like Scotland; Taiwan can be independant like US from UK. They considered that one nation(民族,I can't understand why the translation software translate 民族 into nation, maybe it is the culture difference. ) should be in one country, such as Poland, Finland...
They don't know China had been a holomic country for more than 2000 years. 
They don't know Chinese nation is not Han nation, all of the Chinese is belong to Chinese nation.
It is a great culture gap between Chinesa and Western.
If Western want to communicate with Chinese, please try to study Chinese.
That's all.

Fay

The most basic difference that distinguishes Chinese culture(or even oriental ,at some degree) with western might go to the mode of thinking.China values abstract and perceptual stuff like Taoism,traditional Chinese poems,medicine and Chi,which you can not tell exactly what’s inside from a scientific and logic viewpoint.The western ,however ,emphasizes the internal structure and logic of everything around them.consequently,the westerners would adopt rational and empirical methods as way of thinking and exploring .

You can also see the reflections on differences between Chinese and Indo-European languages,collectivism and individualism ,and also on art,philosophy and folks' view on lots of stuff.

The distinctions are the most interesting part of culture exchange.

Ming Jie

Given that Quora is a pro-China echo chamber, it comes as no surprised that most of the answers favor that of Chinese culture.

In hopes of giving the comment section some balance, I want to add a few things.

The main difference between the West and East is not the presence/absence of religion. Everyone has a religion, whether or not it is supernatural. The definition of religion is ‘what one considers ultimate’. In this sense the East certainly has a religion. In China’s case, it’s favorite religion is the State/Government/Dynasty. It’s easy to tell what one culture’s religion is, just look at what they would kill/die for. China has, throughout its history,murdered their own kind for the sake of unifying ‘All under heaven’. In other words, power. They will work for the state to their death, worship it in the process, just like how a monotheist would with regards to their supernatural God. So, to the self-righteous pro-Chinese culture peoples who think they have no religion, think again.

Chinese culture has one source but Western culture has two. Noted that it is a contentious point, but there’s really only one source for China - and that is Confucius. For the West, they are Socrates and Jesus. Also note that I am not saying that one is better than the other on the basis of the number of sources, it’s just an observation.

The Chinese believe that everything that can happen has already happened, the West believes that not everything that can happen has already happened.
This is why technological progress was never really a value to the Chinese and everything to the West. The Chinese imagine that history is like a cycle going from left to right. The West believes that history is an upward sloping cycle.

Arguably, all differences originate from ancient philosophers.
Chinese culture/philosophy originates from the foundamental theory of"天人合一", and to my best ability translated as" Nature human integration"
And in western culture, the counterpart would be "Nature human separation"
Sorry i am unable to bring out massive references to back my opinion.
Nic Ngu
Chinese emphasize on self-depreciation and humility. Chinese parents and educators try not to give too much positive comments on their kids so that they won't fail due to overconfidence. We believe that kids should understand that they still have a long way to go in terms of study or anything else. The downside is that kids often develop lower self-esteem.

Western culture is the other way round. Parents and educators in many western countries rarely give negative comments about a child. Western parents and teachers will always try to say something nice about a kid. Western kids often grow up to be confident which is usually a good thing, but too much confidence can be bad as well.
Jian Sun

“Western” is too broad. Are we talking about Mexican western or Nordic western, Russian western or New Zealand western, Christian western or Islamic western, Jewish western or atheist western?

Let’s dumb it down to Anglo-Saxon American western as this British western mutant has become the leader of the west.

Allow me quote an American China hand Greg Blandino, “America thinks it's values are universal. China thinks it's values are unique.” This pretty much sums up cultural everything.

Now I have been challenging American universal values for 2 years at Quora, and haven’t really met a Quoran who can actually name one and prove it’s real. Therefore, until someone does, the American values remain as surreal.

As to the Chinese values, I don’t have to prove it as it isn’t universal - who cares anyway? But if you do care or are curious, I recommend you read Chinese classic texts just like you read the bible to understand the American values - now I have just proved the American values aren’t real, haven’t I?

Real or not real, that’s the biggest difference between the Chinese and American cultures.

B.T. Yang
  1. How one shows one’s love: more openly in the west, Chinese, more reserved. This is especially pronounced in parent-child relations: some Chinese rarely openly hug their kids, and Chinese parents tend to think they have the right to talk down on their kids in the open.
  2. Filial piety: Chinese tend to think the young have obligations to take care of their parents; even the not-so-old parents tend to instill the guilt in their offsprings that they are entitled to part of their kids’ incomes, while the western parents almost never do so.
  3. Nationalism: Chinese tend to have the stigma of the humiliations inflicted on the Qing Dynasty in the 19th century, partly from the educations they receive. This results in easy fomentation of Lenin-Mao style nationalism among people. In the west, history is taught just records of past human behaviors, not related to patriotism.

Naturally, as China opens up, the difference will definitely narrow down and —if one can gingerly put it—tilt to the “western values”. Ultimately, an open society value tends to prevail.

If one looks at the “ethical Chinese” raised in Taiwan, Hong Kong and Singapore, then the difference between the Western values and “modern Chinese” values will not look as pronounced, especially in the open Internet era.

Certainly, given time, when the educated middle class take hold on their destiny in mainland China, the above differences will be blur, if not totally vanished.

Steven Williams

There isn't such a thing as ‘Western Culture’. I wouldn't really call Chinese culture a thing either.

Let me explain why.

The West, as you put it, is made up of numerous different countries that speak many languages, have many customs and ways of life that often conflict with one another.

China also has this. A ginormous country that has 57 recognised ethnic groups is going to have a lot of cultural diversity. Going into a Uyghur household in Xinjiang is going to be a totally different experience from entering a Han household in Beijing or a Mongal household in Inner Mongolia.

Chris Zhang

Imho, speaking of general features of a certain culture, it is highly probable that inductive conclusions are inevitably not inclusive enough, making it a limited span and biased, even if not necessarily in a bad way.

It should be encouraged to make an acquaintance with any culture, but questioning in detail.

Chinese culture affect people deeper than Western culture.

Not only left it good spirit or things,but also awful trash.Many people who are living or lived in backward place of China still have old-fashioned and enlightened thought,it's difficult for them to update their mind,one of reason is that they are too old to weed out feudal ideas;another is their life has been stable,easy and comfortable so that advanced thoughts are refused to accept,such effect will go down generation by generation...

I know little about western culture, but it seems western are easier to accept new things or thoughts.

Gabriella Crystal Hendricks

I'm sorry for taking so long to answer this question. I thought a lot about this question. And I don't want to answe a question Bc I have to, I want to answer a question Bc I have my own experience and opinion about it.

About money: Chinese people love to share their financial situation with people. And sometimes people will ask you how much money you make every month. Not Bc they care, Bc they want to compare and to see who make more money.

For westerners, it's not polite to ask people's financials. Bc it's none of others business.

About spending money: Chinese likes saving money instead of spending. For example, we decorate our house for living, not for feelings. We don't buy extra useless stuff to make our home look beautiful. We buy stuff to use, not for looking. As long as it's still working, we don't get a new one to replace it.

For westerners: people like to make their home cozy and beautiful, sometimes they buy candles and decorations to put it on the table to make it look better.

About who pay the bill: for Chinese people, the elder,the male,the staff instead of the boss, the one who asked people out.

For westeners: ALWAYS PAY FOR YOURSELF

About dating: for Chinese boys, if a boy likes a girl, he would get her number and talk to her, maybe flirt with her and ask  her out sometimes without telling the girl that he likes her, if he "felt"the same way, then he will tell her that he likes her and asks her to be his gf. Then if everything goes well, after they became bf and gf,they will go on dates. But sometimes, girls just don't get it. For example, one of my friend gave me medicine when I had a cold. I was grateful about that, but I didn't have a second thought. Bc I thought he was being nice as a friend. He had never said anything or did anything to convey the idea that he likes me. We didn't talk that much, I didn't know him that well, he didn't know me well either. One night, he told me that he liked a girl and he didn't know if he should let her know, I was like sure, why not, the chance is fifty-fifty. So later that night, he sent me a message like he wants me to be his gf. I was totally shocked. So I told him that I was busy at doing my homework and I'll talk to him later. He probably thought I was going to turn him down,so after couple days,I told him that I don't him that much, I can't be his gf. And he texted me back said: I was kidding! So I said that I was kidding too. He was trying to save his dignity. But the truth is I don't even know who he is. But for him, it's about I look down on him Bc he's not good Enough. That's not true. It's just Bc I don't know him well Enough. I don't like his personality either.

For westerners: ask a girl out that makes a date and both of them know it. They gets to know each other through the dates.then they establish a relationship. If it doesn't work out, no hard feelings.

Roxanne Boireau
Western Culture and Chinese Culture are indeed very different. I cannot answer this question entirely because it could last forever but when reading your topic, the first difference I have in mind in that Chinese culture retains the importance of the Family and the Respect for Others. Whereas in Europe, young people are stuck into a societal issues and media info which do not keep any ethics in their subjects. Being divorced, violence at school, drugs and a lot of others... are normalized, and lead to the withdrawal of the cultural respect. We will soon say that it is the case in China and some examples can prove the contrary, as always, but when you meet young Chinese people they will often speak about their families to explain their own values and motivations. You can also see that as the fruit of overprotection but at least, they don't forget where they come from.

Westerners find the Chinese culture complex, and hard to understand, as the Chinese culture has its own values, background and belief system. The Chinese are very friendly and helpful to a stranger, compared to Westerners who would never entertain a stranger. Western culture has a wealthy and luxurious lifestyle, but Chinese mostly have a modest way of living, for example, on average, the Chinese may have no more than 40 sq. feet of living space. Chinese use sir names, and are strictly moral to avoid public displays of affection. The Western culture has the freedom to express them freely. When compared to Western culture, the Chinese culture differs a lot, as they value relationships more than their Western counterparts.

Patrick Edwin Moran

Plato had something called “the idea of the One” that suggested that in reality there are no distinctions between things, i.e., all things are part of some kind of continuum. Distinct entities appear only in “the world of opinion.” However, that idea never became popular in the West, and everybody tried a reductionist methodology that depicted all the individual things in the world as the working out of “laws” in the mind of God (or some variation of that basic scheme). Spinoza was an exception, but continuum ideas didn’t work their way back into Western discourse until encouraged to do so by modern physics (i.e., from quantum mechanics on to several attempts to find a “theory of everything” or “grand unified theory”).

Chinese philosophers were, of course, aware of the same “individual things” that we consider discrete entities, e.g., dogs, birds, snakes, etc. However, from earliest times they took the path of explaining everything in terms of a basic unity that works itself out into articulations that appear to be separate on the phenomenal level but are still united on a deeper level. You can see these ideas most clearly in the Zhuang Zi (Chuang Tzu in the old romanization), Lao Zi, and the Book of Changes, but also in Chinese medicine and other areas of inquiry that are explained in terms of the “five moving/changing influences” (五行 wǔ xíng, sometimes confusingly translated as the “five elements”).

So, at the risk of being utterly simplistic, you could say that Western culture is characterized by a fixation on individuality, whereas Chinese culture is fixated on the community of all beings.

Veronica Lee

A2A Joye Wang.

Right off the top of my head, food or meal play a very very important role in Chinese life.

For greeting, people would ask “have you had dinnner yet?” instead of “how are you”. Perhaps the elders say so because of their memory of food shortage. But for me, who is in her 20s and never worries about food shortage, still greet others in that way. Nearly subconscious.

Almost everyday, people would ask a question: what will you eat for breakfast/ lunch/ supper. Seriously, for every meal I would ask my roomate that question for advice that what should I eat for the following meal. No metter how tight the deadline is, I would hardly skip my meal. If I have to skip my lunch, I would treat myself a big meal in supper. And for celebration, most people would choose to eating out together.

Chinese people love hot water, western people love cold water. 
By hot water, I mean hot boiled water from water kettle without add anything. Seems like most Western people only use boiled water to make tea, coffee, etc.
William Lee

The biggest difference is the altitude towards flaws in the processes to their goals. Chinese can tolerate flaws, westerners can’t.

If you check ideals and theories developed by westerners, it is usually 0 or 1, issues are simplified to the extent that no more simplification is possible.

That is why most Chinese are atheists by western standard, because Chinese don’t believe that rules must be strictly followed, as long as the results are what you want.

That is one of the reasons why science didn’t blossom in China, because Chinese in general are not interested in studying absolute rules.

Louis Cohen

One big aspect is attitudes toward groups vs individuals. Western culture, especially in the USA, stresses individual responsibility and achievement. You work for yourself, not your extended family much less your state or city or even country.

I think many Asian countries, especially those with one-party governments, promote group identity partly from tradition, partly to avoid government responsibility for a social safety net, and partly to suppress dissent.

There’s also respect for authority. In America, if you think you can do better than your boss, you quit and start your own company, or at least look elsewhere for a better boss. In countries with a confucian tradition, you wait your turn. This obviously helps repressive governments as well.

C. Michel de Wilde

In Chinese culture, humility, humbleness and introversion are valued while in western culture it's me me me, and extroversion. Chinese are most likely to be cautious of success while western people will boast them everytime they can. Both have the positives and the bad sides though.

Sebastian Czartoryski-Chatov

We are dealing with ideal types here, so this should be approached with some caution.

The starting difference is that the West is individualist and the East is collectivist.

In the West, an individual will stress his rights and freedoms. In the East, it becomes more about his societal and familial obligations.

In the West, all men are presumed free and equal, hence deference to age and authority is minimal. In the East, respect for hierarchy is important and its acknowledgement expected to avoid loss of face for both sides.

In the West, the rule of law guarantees that rights and obligations will be enforced by independent courts, hence more time is spent on reducing the minutiae of the relationship to writing. In the East, rule of law is weak and rights and obligations are only as strong as the relationship that underpins them, hence more time is spent on sussing out the opposite number and building rapport with them.

Astrid Wong
As a native Chinese, I tell you the idea from my angles. 

Friendship 
We expect friendships to be more lasting, maybe for a lifetime. And friendship sometimes means obligation. You can feel free to ask your friend for help and your friend won't say no even he can give you a reason. Chinese expect more from their friends while westerners expect friends to be independent, as I know. 

Chinese Etiquette and Hierachy
In China's long history, the relationships were based on people's following the proper behaviors that correspond with their social classes. So the etiquette has covered virtually every aspects of conduct.
So sometimes we tell lies to show respect. But between intimate friends, they have open bosom and there are no such Red Tapes. 
We are taught to obey what the seniors and authority, and we should show loyalty to the group we belong to even sometimes we are reluctant to do this. (I am not telling that collectivism worse than the westerner's individualism. It's done a good job during the war!) However, Chinese have gradually value self-reliance as the westerners do. 
And Chinese thought their own family most important. 

The other differences are almost based on the above aspects.
Kev Pugh

-Accepting offers. In Chinese culture, when someone gives you something, you must first refuse to show that you don’t want to make a mess or spend his/her money. It’s to show your appreciation towards the offering/effort. In Western culture, however, refusing could mean that you don’t like the offering.

-In Western culture, it’s normal to say “thank you” to waitresses/cashiers/shopkeepers/staffs. If you do that in China, people think you’re weird/funny.

-In China (And many other Eastern countries), wealth equals respect and admiting your financial inferiority could harm your reputation and respect. The richer you are (or look), the more respect you earn.

-In China (And most Asian countries), people take off their outdoor shoes at home.

-Most Chinese take a shower twice a day, one at the morning before going out, and the other one after work/school.

-Most Chinese don’t like getting tanned. Culturally, having tanned skin is associated with the poor, while the richer ones are expected to afford their time out of sunlight. In the modern world, having light skin is associated with being able to afford skin bleaching products.

-Typical Chinese occassions/parties would have the whole people in the room talking in one big group. On the other hand, Westerners tend to split into smaller groups.

Western culture is based on individualism rather than on mass (collectivism). For instance, in the US, you always talk about individual rights, instead of placing the whole society above your own self. This is clearly different in China where a country, society or family are placed above your own self.

Gary Sands

Chinese culture incorporates elements of Buddhism and Confucianism, which are shame-based, while Western culture incorporates elements of Christianity, Judaism and Islam, which are guilt-based.

Samuel Liu

I'm not sure 2015 in urban China any longer reflect Chinese culture.

As another Quorian wrote 1990s Chinese society and people were collective and has become individualistic.

At any rate, Mao purged Chinese culture and since the CCP has redefined Chinese recent history and culture and values.

On the other hand I can only reflect the Western USA Northern California San Francisco Bay Arean economy.

With the upsurge of Trump supporters, if the nation further progresses in that mode, China and the USA will eventually intersect in the redefining of Western and Confucian cultures.

Wei Shen
A short answer to this question is the view on discipline and the view of personal freedom. The chinese are big discipliners with their children and life. Discipline rules their lives. They do not allow themselves to quit something that they are troubled with until they find the solution. They never give themselves the idea that " I deserve a break". Everything you do has a purpose that helps society run. You are a part of a society and you must play your part. That is your purpose in life.

You would never hear a parent say that their children need a break from school work. You would hear that parent say that their children are not hard working enough. Education and hard work = play. Play is organized and must be educational. There is no idea of "Children must have time to play in the park" totally unstructured.

North American culture believe that children have rights and are owed privacy in their own room so adults rarely enter a teen's room. The Chinese believe that children do not have rights and their room is just another room in the house and they are the parent who is in charge. The house belongs to the parent not the child. Privacy is therefore not an issue to be debated.

China build

Western destroy

Chinese culture just like the great wall.we defense the enemy and develop ourselves.

Chinese invented powder for people.but Western learns for killing. Chinese invent compass for people. Western use it for Colonization.

someone make things for beauty someone use things for blood

To answer your question would take a book or several. The differences are profound, basically hinging around the core concepts of "individualism"(west) and "collectivism" (east). Each "-ism" is the underlying difference that pervades all major and minor decisions that each "-ism" makes. And, every decision made in accordance with the decision-makers "-ism" appears correct and right to the decision-maker, no matter how baffling it appears to an observer from the other "-ism".

The differences are like sky and earth.

Everything is different from genetics, food, religion, language and culture.

Genetics: Chinese are Mongoloid, Europeans are Caucasoid

Food: Chinese food is based on rice/noodles and soya bean. European food is based on milk and bread. Chinese eat with chopsticks whereas Europeans eat with fork and spoon.

Language: Chinese languages are monosyllabic and tonal whereas European languages are polysyllabic and non-tonal.

Religion: Traditional Chinese religion revolved around Chinese Buddhism (Buddhism and Taoism mixed) whereas European languages revolve around Christianity.

Culture: Family relationship (such as filial piety, respect to elder family members) is very important in Chinese culture, less so in western culture.

There is no "Western culture", in the West there are many cultures that are totally different from each other.

Due to different countries and nations have different customs, social traditions, folk customs, thus causing the differences in language. Understanding of the different cultures, so that we can understand the cultural heritage of the world better. The culture of any country in the labor creates a lifestyle of accumulation, thereby affects the different languages.The specific historical development in the formation of culture, the main content includes some allusion idiom, proverb and dialect. The differences between Chinese and western culture in language are reflected in the meaning of the words. Undering the different cultural background, people has different expressions and understanding on the same thing

Chinese people generally only mind their own businesses. Western people like to "regulate" the world.

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